Thursday, 11 June 2015
Tuesday, 24 March 2015
Financial Advise from Tony Robbins.
Tony Robbins is so much
more than the fast-talking life coach with the TV infomercials. He is credited
with helping some of the world's most powerful, wealthy, and successful
people--from billionaire hedge fund manager Paul Tudor Jones to the late anti-apartheid
crusader Nelson Mandela to Salesforce.com founder and CEO Marc Benioff.
Even Bill Clinton leaned on
Robbins's advice during
the former president's impeachment proceedings. Some of Robbins's best lessons
from his long career as a life coach to the rich and powerful were captured in an interview with Inc. editor-in-chief Eric Schurenberg.
After the Great Recession, Robbins says he saw people lose their
homes, their businesses, and just about everything they had worked for their
whole lives. America is still hurting from the 2008 crash, but Robbins says you
can be successful.
Below is Robbins's most important advice for entrepreneurs.
Set
up a one-employee side business.
The first step in being financially successful is knowing you
can be, he says.
"You need to understand the game is still winnable,"
Robbins tells Inc. You don't have to be Paul Tudor Jones
to make money, just start putting your money to work now.
"Set up a financial business on the side with no employees,
it'll be an extraordinary nest egg that could bring you income for life,"
he says. Robbins says you should not wait until you have a pile of cash, get
started with what you have.
"To be a great investor, you need to make good decisions
without perfect knowledge. The first step is not to wait until you have a huge
sum of money. The illusion is that when you have more money, you'll invest and
it'll be more worth while," Robbins says. "The most important thing
to do is start investing now, so you can unlock the power of compounding."
Robbins recounts the story of a UPS employee who never made
more than $14,000 a year, but retired with a $70 million fortune "without
inheriting a dime." Theodore Johnson's friend told him he was going
to take 20 percent of his salary off every paycheck and invest it. To make due
without that money, Johnson's friend told him to treat it like a 20 percent tax
that Uncle Sam took out of every paycheck. Over the years, compound interest
and good investments helped build a $70 million fortune.
"You don't earn your way to a fortune, you invest your way,
you compound it," Robbins says.
Add
value, and help those around you.
Robbins wants you to dream big, get inspired, and live a life of
wild success, but in order to get there, you have to accomplish smaller things
and build up. Long-term, sustainably wealthy entrepreneurs didn't wake up in a
room of cash, they set out to add value and help people.
"You can get rich by screwing someone, but if you're going
to stay rich, you have to be constantly helping people," he says. When
Robbins's first child was born, he was only making $38,000 a year. By the next
year, he was making $1 million a year. "That jump wasn't a sudden new
skill set, it was a must for me psychologically to produce that wealth,"
he says.
Robbins's mentor, the entrepreneur and motivational speaker Jim
Rohn, gave him two lessons on how to tap your strongest talents and resources
to be successful:
"Find your passion and find a way to use it to do more for
others than anyone else does and add value. And proximity is power. If you want
to get the job done, you have to get in the environment of the best of the
best," Robbins recalls Rohn saying.
When Robbins told Rohn he needed to provide for his family, Rohn
said for the goals he had, he needed to be in the proximity of the best
moneymakers. Robbins wanted to acquire more wealth, so he started hanging out
with investment bankers. "I did that for a couple of years, but it
seemingly produced no business results. Until one day, one of those
relationships grew into a deal that made me $400 million in a day, we took a
company public," he says. "I could've worked my entire lifetime and
not made that happen, I had to be in proximity with the best."
No one grows personally and professionally by themselves,
everyone needs help. If you want to do a certain thing--make money, build a
company, help feed the hungry--then you need to be around people who do that
well.
"My own growth has always been about challenging myself to
be around people who play the game of life at a higher level. In order to stay
on the court with them, you need to lift your game, you need to grow," he
says. "If you're around them and you're adding value, you'll find
opportunity. Proximity is power."
Sunday, 22 March 2015
Law Of Gratitude.
We
know that everything we put attention and emotional energy on, good or bad,
will eventually show up in our lives. The universe, and our subconscious mind,
don’t know good from bad, and they treat fear and enthusiasm exactly the
same.
If we’re putting energy on it, we’re placing an order for it.
It’s
important, then, to be putting positive energy on what we want, not negative
energy (fear, worry) on what we don’t want.
Gratitude
is so important because it is a very high energy positive vibration of thought.
It is powerfully attractive! Wattles says it connects us with the Source.
Do
you see what he is saying? If we are grateful about everything, we are focusing
on what we want. It’s a way of making sure we are putting the highest possible
positive energy on our desires, and withholding energy from the doubts and
fears that we don’t want.
This
is the reason that almost everyone who teaches about goals insists that you see
your goal as already accomplished, and that you be grateful for it – now! It’s a powerful way to be sure you’re putting strong energy on the
goal – using gratitude.
You’d
think with gratitude so important that everyone would be conscious of it. But
what I’ve noticed is that many people are actually pushing away the success
they want without knowing it because they are violating this law!
This
belief leads to competitive thinking – the idea that in order to get what you
want, you have to take it away from someone else.
This
is a belief system that encourages fear and worry. Most sales training is based
on this idea. So are all wars.
How
easy is it for anyone to be grateful when they think that the universe is
designed to make things tough for them? Especially when their thinking keeps
creating situations where they get to be right about how tough it is.
Let
me show you how abundant the universe really is. Both science and spirituality
tell us that everything is made out of the same original stuff. Science calls
it energy. So how much is there to make more of whatever we need?
A
recent scientific survey of the cosmos added up everything they could find and
determined that only about 4% of the available energy was used to make the entire
universe! There’s 96% left over, or enough
for 25 more universes! That seems pretty abundant to me.
So
let’s choose a different way of thinking. We can see an abundant supply, rather
than scarcity. We can choose to create
our success, rather than compete for a limited
supply. When we do this, we cease to be a victim of circumstances and we begin
to reclaim our power over our lives! Seeing the universe this way is the first step
in the law of gratitude.
Sunday, 22 February 2015
All bodily manifestations have their roots in the mind
In many ways, man lives
essentially through the mind. Even when we perceive something as
a physical occurrence, deep
down it turns out to be a psychological phenomenon. All bodily
manifestations have their
roots in the mind. Let me explain a few things in this regard, then it
will be easy to follow.
Until fifty years ago, all
human illnesses were treated as illnesses of the body. In the last fifty
years, the more we have
learned about illnesses, the more the proportion of physical illnesses has decreased while that of the
psychological illnesses has increased. Even the greatest of physiologists is
ready to admit today that more than fifty percent of all human ailments are
psychological.
Sicknesses which are otherwise
considered as physical, more than half of them are caused by
the mind. Mind is the very
substratum of man’s being, his existence. It is the source of our life, it is the
source of our illness, and it is the very source of our death. That’s why so
much importance is given to the will.
If you have ever witnessed an
experiment in hypnosis, there are a few things about it worth keeping in mind.
A hypnotized person is simply one whose conscious mind is asleep and whose
unconscious mind is awake. When the conscious mind goes to sleep, the person
stops doubting, because all doubts and misgivings are limited to the conscious
mind.
If we divide the human mind
into ten parts, it will appear that one part of it is conscious while the remaining nine are
unconscious. Nine parts are in the dark unconscious; only a small portion – one
tenth of the mind – is awake.
It is this conscious mind that doubts, thinks,
ponders. If this conscious mind were to sleep, then the remaining nine parts
below would stay totally receptive. There, no questions are asked, no doubts
are raised.
In the state of hypnosis, the
doubting mind is put to sleep and the undoubting, receptive mind comes into
effect. In that state, if you were to place a small piece of rock on the hand
of the hypnotized person and tell him it is a hot coal, he will cry out in pain
as if his hand had been burned. He will at once throw the rock away – just as
he would if a real hot coal had been placed on his hand.
Up to this point one may
assume that just an idea in his mind must have caused this to happen. But the
astonishing thing is that blisters appear on his hand – the same as it would
have if a hot coal had been placed there. So apparently, although you had
placed an ordinary piece of rock, the person’s mind totally accepted your word
that it was a hot coal. And the body has no means of denying the mind, so it
acts accordingly. Remember well, if the mind accepts totally, the body will
have to follow it.
There is a reverse of this
experiment too, which is even more astonishing. You can place an ember in the hypnotized person’s
hand and tell him it is just a cold pebble. The man will keep on holding the
ember and yet no blisters will appear on his hand. Without the mind’s
permission, the body is helpless to do anything.
That is why fakirs are able to
dance barefoot on fire – there is no miracle in it. It’s just a little
experiment in the science of
mind. There are ten fakirs dancing on the fire, they openly invite
anyone to join them, so there
is no question of any fraud. You are welcome to dance with them.
But that will be possible only
when watching those ten people you become fully convinced the fire is not affecting them. Once
you are convinced – that if they are not having burns, you won’t either– you reach the same state a
hypnotized person does. In that state, the one part of your mind is not doubting, and the nine
parts are believing – now you can jump into the fire, your feet won’t burn.
One who has any doubts will
not jump, but the one who has none will jump in. What this means is that even
fire cannot burn you if the mind is not open to it, and even coldness can cause
burns if the mind is ready for it.
Saturday, 21 February 2015
The society is not for human beings,the society is using human beings as a means for itself.
ECSTASY IS A
LANGUAGE that man has completely forgotten. He has been forced to forget it; he
has been compelled to forget it. The society is against it, the civilization is
against it. The society has a tremendous investment in misery. It depends on
misery, it feeds on misery, it survives on misery.
The society
is not for human beings. The society is using human beings as a means for
itself. The society has become more important than humanity. The culture, the
civilization, the church, they all have become more important. They were meant
to be for man, but now they are not for man. They have almost reversed the
whole process; now man exists for them.
Every child
is born ecstatic. Ecstasy is natural. It is not something that happens only to
great sages. It is something that everybody brings with him into the world;
everybody comes with it. It is life’s innermost core. It is part of being
alive. Life is ecstasy. Every child brings it into the world, but then the
society jumps on the child, starts destroying the possibility of ecstasy,
starts making the child miserable, starts conditioning the child.
The society
is neurotic, and it cannot allow ecstatic people to be here. They are dangerous
for it.Try to understand the mechanism; then things will be easier.
You cannot
control an ecstatic man; it is impossible. You can only control a miserable
man. An ecstatic man is bound to be free. Ecstasy is freedom. He cannot be
reduced to being a slave. You cannot destroy him so easily; you cannot persuade
him to live in a prison. He would like to dance under the stars and he would
like to walk with the wind and he would like to talk with the sun and the moon.
He will need the vast, the infinite, the huge, the enormous. He cannot be
seduced into living in a dark cell. You cannot make a slave out of him. He will
live his own life and he will do his thing.
This is very
difficult for the society. If there are many ecstatic people, the society will
feel it is falling apart, its structure will not hold anymore.
Those
ecstatic people will be the rebels. Remember, I don’t call an ecstatic person
”revolutionary”; I call him a ”rebel.” A revolutionary is one who wants to
change the society, but he wants to replace it with another society. A rebel is
one who wants to live as an individual and would like there to exist no rigid
social structure in the world. A rebel is one who does not want to replace this
society with another society – because all the societies have proved the same,
The capitalist and the communist and the fascist and the socialist, they are
all cousin-brothers; it doesn’t make much difference. The society is society.
All the churches have proved the same – the Hindu, the Christian, the
Mohammedan.
Once a
structure becomes powerful, it does not want anybody to be ecstatic, because
ecstasy is against structure. Listen to it and meditate over it: ecstasy is
against structure Ecstasy is rebellious.
Friday, 20 February 2015
Love should not be a demanding love
Love should
not be a demanding love;
otherwise it
loses wings, it cannot fly. It becomes rooted in the earth, becomes very
earthly; then it is lust and it brings great misery and great suffering. Love
should not be conditional, one should not expect anything out of it.It should
be for its own sake – not for any reward, not for any result. If there is some motive
in it, again, your love cannot become the sky. It is confined to the motive;
the motive becomes its definition, its boundary. Unmotivated love has no
boundary: it is pure elation, exuberance, it is the fragrance of the heart.
And because
there is no desire for any result, it does not mean that results do not happen;
they do, they happen a thousandfold more, because whatsoever we give to the world,
it comes back, it rebounds. The world is an echoing place: if we throw anger,
anger comes back; if we give love,love comes back. But that is a natural
phenomenon, one need not think about it. One can trust: it happens on its own.
This is the law of karma: whatsoever you sow, you reap; whatsoever you give, you
get. So there is no need to think about it, it is automatic. Hate, and you will
be hated. Love, and you will be loved.
And the
third thing: let love become more and more conscious. When it is unconscious it
remains entangled with sexuality. Nothing is wrong in sexuality but that is the
lowest form of love, the first rung of the ladder. It is good in itself but to
remain confined to it is not to grow: there are higher rungs in the ladder. The
ladder reaches to the ultimate and sex is the first rung. Use it to go beyond it.
Love should
be more conscious. When it is conscious it is less sexual. I am not saying that
there will be no sex: sex will be there but it will not be sexual. It will be
pure sensuality; that is a totally different phenomenon.
It will be
sheer joy, sensitivity, but there will be no sexual mind behind it. You will
not be thinking about sex, there will be no cerebral sex in it no head sex in
it. It will be a simple sharing of energies. So these three things to be
remembered; then love, slowly slowly, becomes light.
The English
word ’light’ is very very significant. It has two meanings: one is light,
luminosity; another is
weightlessness. Those two meanings don’t seem to be joined at all but they have
a subtle connection. When one becomes full of light, one becomes weightless;
one can fly, one has wings.
Thursday, 19 February 2015
Why say the word ”God” at all? Why use it?
GOD IS
WITHIN AND WITHOUT, because only God is. In fact to say ”God is” is a
repetition because God is never ”is not.” God is the very isness of existence.
We can say ”the house is” because once the house was not and once again the
house will not be. To call the house ”is” is okay because the ”is not” is
possible. We can say ”the man is” but we cannot say ”God is,” because only he
is, always has been, always will be. God is the very isness, God is existence
itself.
Then why say
the word ”God” at all? Why use it? We use it very symbolically, to indicate
something. When we say ”God is” we mean existence is not without a soul. We
mean that existence is not dead.
We mean that
existence is alive, throbbing with love, compassion, consciousness, conscience;
that existence is intimate; that there is a possibility of addressing existence
and there is a possibility of getting the response. When we say ”God is” we
mean that existence allows the possibility of a dialogue. You can have a
dialogue with it; you can call it ”thou” and it will not be meaningless; and you
can be in such a state that prayer becomes possible, that communion becomes
possible.
That’s all
the word ”God” carries. Existence is not like a dead rock; it is an alive
flower. It will respond to you. If you love it, love will flow towards you. If
you move towards it, it will move towards you. If you seek it, it will seek
you. Existence is not care-less. If you are in love with existence, existence is
in love with you. That’s all that we mean when we call existence divine or when
we say God is.
Remember it.
It is a poetic way of saying a truth. It is not a fact. It is poetry, it is
romance. And religion should be romance with existence.
The Charge of Goddess
Listen to the words of the Ancient Mother, who was of old called among men Astarte,
Aphrodite, Cerridwen, Maia, Diana, Terra, Ishtar, Hecate, Brigid, and by many other
names.
Whenever ye have need of anything, once in the month, and better it be when the moon is full, ye shall assemble in sacred space and adore the spirit of me who is Mother of all.
There ye shall assemble who desire to learn all sorcery, yet have not won its deepest
secrets. To these I will teach things that are yet unknown, and you shall dance, sing, feast, make music and love, all in my praise. For mine is the ecstasy of the spirit, and mine also is Joy on Earth, and my Law is love unto all beings. Keep pure thine highest ideals, strive ever towards them. Let naught stop thee or turn thee aside, for mine is the secret that opens upon the door of youth, and mine is the Cauldron that gives the knowledge of rebirth.
I am the gracious Lady who gives the gift of joy to the hearts of mankind. I give the
knowledge of the spirit eternal, and beyond death I give peace and freedom and reunion
with those who have gone before. Nor do I demand aught of sacrifice, for behold! I am
the Mother of all things, and my love is poured out upon the Earth!
Hear the words of the Star Goddess, the dust of whose feet are the hosts of heaven, whose body encircles the universe:
I am the beauty of the green Earth, and the white moon among the stars, and the rhythms
of the waters, I call to your soul to arise and come to me. For I am the soul of nature who
gives life to the universe. From me all things proceed, and to me all things must return.
And before my face thine inmost self shall be enfolded in the rapture of the infinite.
Let my worship be in the heart that rejoices, for behold! All acts of Love and Pleasure are my rituals! Let there be beauty and strength, power and compassion, honor and humility,mirth and reverence within thee. And thou who seek to know me, know that thy seeking and yearning will avail thee not, unless thou knowest the mystery: for if that which thou seekest thou findest not within thee, thou wilt never find it without. For behold, I have been with thee from the beginning , and I am that which is attained at the end of desire.
Monday, 16 February 2015
Celebrity's Opinion of “love sucks, lets F**k”
Emblazoned boldly on the chest of a man in his late forties was the t-shirt slogan “love sucks, lets F**k”.
It made me giggle for a moment then I wondered what made that statement so attractive or relatable to him that he actually felt the need to scream it from his chest. For a lot of people sex is just a function, a need to be fulfilled and yet for many it’s synonymous with love.
It takes an embittered person to want to only have sex and deliberately do away with all notions of love and to not even entertain the thought of a heart being involved! It’s a common belief that for women love leads to sex and that for men sex leads to love.
I find that generalisation itself puzzling, because it either alludes that women fall in love before men do or that men fake being in love to get sex or that women compromise and have sex hoping to get the man to fall in love with them.
The fact is that none of it really matters as long as the end result is a happy fulfilling unison, be it just for the sake of sex or because people happen to fall in love.
The only sad part is in believing that love sucks. Because it truly doesn’t! Love is a magic ingredient. It makes for healthy relationships and ups the ante in your sex life too. Don’t let the fact you made a few wrong choices get to you.
A defeated or cynical attitude doesn’t serve you. A heart may heal in hibernation, but it is meant for loving. Go out there, spread love, find love and experience love.
It made me giggle for a moment then I wondered what made that statement so attractive or relatable to him that he actually felt the need to scream it from his chest. For a lot of people sex is just a function, a need to be fulfilled and yet for many it’s synonymous with love.
It takes an embittered person to want to only have sex and deliberately do away with all notions of love and to not even entertain the thought of a heart being involved! It’s a common belief that for women love leads to sex and that for men sex leads to love.
I find that generalisation itself puzzling, because it either alludes that women fall in love before men do or that men fake being in love to get sex or that women compromise and have sex hoping to get the man to fall in love with them.
The fact is that none of it really matters as long as the end result is a happy fulfilling unison, be it just for the sake of sex or because people happen to fall in love.
The only sad part is in believing that love sucks. Because it truly doesn’t! Love is a magic ingredient. It makes for healthy relationships and ups the ante in your sex life too. Don’t let the fact you made a few wrong choices get to you.
A defeated or cynical attitude doesn’t serve you. A heart may heal in hibernation, but it is meant for loving. Go out there, spread love, find love and experience love.
--- Pooja Bedi
(Pooja Bedi is a popular personality across all Media. In films, newspapers, television, theatre and digital media. )
Wednesday, 11 February 2015
Do you beg for attention..all the time?
People go on doing
things which they never wanted to do, but they go on doing them because that is
the only way they can get the approval of others. Everybody is distracted from
his destiny.
The
thinking up to now has been this – that the individual exists for the society
so the individual has to follow just what the society says. He has to fit with
the society. That is the definition of the normal human
being – to fit with the society. Even if the society is insane, you have to fit
with it; then you are normal. Even if the society is neurotic and you try to be
sane, you will be thought neurotic because the
society is the majority. They have power so they can make anybody feel guilty.
They
have put a deep mechanism inside you which they call a conscience which, if you
move slightly away from the norm, the accepted rules of the game, immediately
says, ’Wrong! Wrong! You are doing
something wrong!’ Now the problem for the individual is that nature demands one
thing and society demands something contrary. If the society was demanding the
same as nature demands,there would have been no conflict. Man would still have
remained in the garden of Eden.
The
problem arises because society has its own interests which are not necessarily
in tune with the individual and his interests. Society has its own investments.
The individual has to be sacrificed.
This
is a very topsy-turvy world. Just the other way round should be the right
thing. The individual does not exist for the society. The society exists for
the individual. Because society is just an institution. It has no soul.
An
individual has the soul, is the conscious centre; it has a centre.
God
resides in the individual, not in the society. Society is nothing – just a
word.
Tuesday, 10 February 2015
Once you know that miserliness can be dropped, you move into a different dimension.
Much
will be happening, much more, and gratitude prepares the way. Feel as grateful
to existence as possible – for small things, not only for great things... just
for sheer breathing. We don’t have any claim on existence, so whatsoever is
given is a gift. If it is not given we don’t have any court for appeal.
So
grow more and more in gratitude and thankfulness ; let it become your very
style. Be grateful to everybody.
If
one understands gratitude then one is grateful for things that have been done
positively. And one even feels grateful for things which could have been done
negatively. You feel grateful that somebody helped you; this is just the
beginning. Then you start feeling grateful that somebody has not harmed you –
he could have; it was so kind of him.
Once
you understand the feeling of gratitude and allow it to sink deeply within you,
you will start feeling grateful for everything. And the more grateful you are,
the less complaining, grumbling.
Once
complaining disappears, misery disappears. It exists with complaints. It is
hooked with
complaints
and with the complaining mind. Misery is impossible with gratefulness. So that
is one of the most important secrets to learn.
You
see a person and you smile. You smile for him. One should smile only for
oneself. If others share, good. If nobody shares, good. But one should smile of
one’s own accord. One should not laugh to make somebody else happy, because if
you are not happy, you cannot make anybody happy. Even if you are happy, it is
very difficult to make somebody else happy because it depends on that somebody
else as to whether he will accept it or not. One should simply laugh of one’s
own
accord,
and one should not wait for reasons to laugh. That too is absurd. Why wait for
reasons? Life as it is should be enough of a reason to laugh. It is so absurd,
it is so ridiculous. It is so beautiful...
it
is so wonderful. It is all sorts of things together. It is a great cosmic joke.
If
you start looking into things you will not be able to stop laughing. Everything
is simply perfect for laughter – nothing is lacking – but we won’t allow. We
are very miserly... miserly about laughter,
love,
life. Once you know that miserliness can be dropped, you move into a different
dimension.
Saturday, 31 January 2015
Marriage is the ugliest institution invented by Man,Marriage is against nature.
WHY
IS IT SO DIFFICULT FOR MEN AND WOMEN TO BE FRIENDS? IT SEEMS SO ORDINARY,AND
TURNS OUT TO BE ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE. EITHER THERE IS AN UGLY COMPROMISE– LIKE MAN
AND WIFE – OR ELSE PASSION THAT EVENTUALLY TURNS INTO HATE. WHY IS
THERE
ALWAYS UGLINESS BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN?
It
is very simple to understand. Marriage is the ugliest institution invented by
man. It is not natural; it has been invented so that you can monopolize a
woman. You have been treating women as if they
were
a piece of land, or some currency notes. You have reduced the woman to a thing.
Remember
that if you reduce any human being to a thing – unaware, unconscious – you are
also being reduced to the same status; otherwise, you will not be able to
communicate. If you can talk with a chair, you must be a chair.
Marriage
is against nature.
You
can be certain only of this moment that is in your hands. All promises for
tomorrow are lies –and marriage is a promise for your whole life, that you will
remain together, that you will love each
other,
that you will respect each other till your last breath.
And
these priests, who are the inventors of many ugly things, say to you that
marriages are made in heaven. Nothing is made in heaven; there is no heaven.
If
you listen to nature, your problems, your questions will simply evaporate. The
problem is biologically man is attracted to woman, women are attracted to men,
but that attraction cannot
remain
the same forever. You are attracted to something which is a challenge to get.
You see a beautiful man, a beautiful woman; you are attracted. Nothing is wrong
in it. You feel your heart beating faster. You would like to be with this woman
or man, and the attraction is so tremendous that in that moment you think you
would like to live with this woman forever.
Lovers
don’t deceive each other, they are saying the truth – but that truth belongs to
the moment.
When
lovers say to each other, ”I cannot live without you,” it is not that he is
deceiving or she is deceiving, they mean it. But they don’t know the nature of
life. Tomorrow this same woman will not look so beautiful. As days pass, the
man and the woman both will feel that they are imprisoned.
They
have know each other’s geography completely. First it was an unknown territory
to be discovered, now there is nothing to be discovered.
And
to go on repeating the same words and the same acts looks mechanical, ugly.
That’s why passion turns into hate. The woman hates you, because you are going
to do the same thing again.
To
prevent you, the moment the husband enters the house she goes to bed, she has a
headache. She wants somehow not to get into the same rut. And the man is flirting
with his secretary in the office; now she is an unknown territory.
To
me, it is all nature. What is unnatural is binding people in the name of
religion, in the name of God, for their whole life.
In
a better, more intelligent world, people will love, but will not make any
contracts. It is not a business! They will understand each other, and they will
understand the changing flux of life. They will be true to each other. The
moment the man feels that now his beloved holds no joy for him, he will say
that the time has come to part. There is no need for marriage, there is no need
for divorce.
Then
friendship will be possible.
There
will be only friends – no husbands, no wives. Of course, if there is only
friendship, passion will never turn into hate. The moment you feel passion
disappearing, you will say good-bye, and it will be understood. Even if it
hurts, nothing can be done about it – it is the way of life.
But
man has created societies, cultures, civilizations, rules, regulations, and
made the whole humanity unnatural. That’s why men and women cannot be friends.
And men and women either become husbands and wives – which is something
absolutely ugly; they start owning each other....
Thursday, 29 January 2015
Meritocracy -The system of Future Governing
HOW
CAN THE IDEA OF MERITOCRACY BE PRACTICALLY REALIZED?
ONE
thing is absolutely certain: The days of the politicians are over.
They
have done too well their job of being destructive, violent.
They
have come to a point where humanity has to decide either to die remaining with
the politicians, to commit a global suicide, or to throw out the politicians
and save humanity, civilization, culture, life.
Nothing
is favorable to the politician; and as each day passes his death comes closer.
He himself
is
responsible. He improved the weapons which can bring death to the whole world
to such a point
that
there is no way of going back. Either there will be an ultimate war – which
means death to all and everything – or a total change in the whole structure of
human society. I am calling that change,meritocracy.
One
thing – we have to drop the idea that every man, just because he is Eighteen,
is capable of choosing who is the right person to decide the fate of nations.
Age cannot be the decisive factor.
We
have to change the decisive factor; that is changing the very foundation.
My
suggestion is that only a person who is at least a matriculate should be able
to vote. His age
does
not matter. And as I explain to you the whole thing, it will become easier. For
the local
government,
matriculation will be the qualification for the voters. And graduation from a
university,at least a bachelor’s degree, should be a necessary qualification for
anybody running for election,for the candidates. A master’s degree should be a
minimum qualification for the one who is running for mayor.
I
have seen education ministers who have never been to university. Before they
became education
ministers
they had never even seen a university campus. Yes, after becoming education
minister
they
start giving convocation addresses to the universities. Universities start
giving them degrees,
honorary
degrees, because actually they are not even matriculates.
Then
just because you are Eighteen it does not mean you are capable of choosing the
government. Choosing the government should be a very skillful, intelligent job.
Just by being eighteen you may be able to reproduce children – it needs no
skill, even animals are doing perfectly well. It needs no education, biology
sends you well prepared. But to choose the government, to choose people who are
going to have all the powers over you and everybody and who are going to decide
the destiny of the country and the world... the way we have been choosing them
is simply idiotic.
And
what power do politicians have? All the power that they have we have given to
them. We can take it back. It is not their power, it is our power. We just have
to find a way to take it back – because giving is very easy, taking is a little
difficult. They will not be so simple and innocent when you take the power back
as they were when they were asking it from you. It is our power, but they will
go on having it if the mob remains there to give it to them; the mob can be
convinced about anything.
I
am not against the people. In fact, in the hands of these politicians, the
people are against
themselves.
I am all for the people, and what I am saying can be said to be exactly what
has
been
said about democracy: for the people, by the people, of the people – just ”by
the people” I will have to change. This intelligentsia will be for the people,
of the people. It will be serving the masses.
It
is so simple a thing. You don’t elect a doctor, that just anybody can stand, it
is a birthright, and
people
can vote. Two persons fighting to be the doctor or to be the surgeon? What is
wrong in it?
The
people choose for themselves: for the people, by the people, of the people.
They choose one
person,
a surgeon, because he speaks better, he looks good on the television and he
makes great
promises.
But
he is not even a butcher! – and he is going to become a surgeon. He is not even
a butcher.
Even
a butcher would have been better; at least he would have known how to cut, and
finish you.
This
man... but you don’t choose a surgeon by election.
How
can you choose a president by election? How can you choose a governor by
election? You
are
giving so much power to power – hungry people; with your own hands you are
telling them to
hang
you! This is not democracy. In the name of democracy these people have been
exploiting the masses.
Just
to make a distinction I am calling this system meritocracy. But merit for what?
The merit
is
to serve and share. And once you have decided to shift the power from the
politicians to the
intelligentsia,
everything is possible – everything becomes simple.
Then
I want every university to have two compulsory institutions, because that is
the way I would
like
the people who are going to be powerful to be prepared.
Right
now, up to now, for thousands of years you have never prepared anybody. If
somebody is going to be a boxer you don’t just push him into the ring and say,
”Start!” He has to learn. If somebody is going to be a swordsman, it will take
him years. Otherwise he won’t even know how to hold the sword – using it and
fighting with it will be impossible. First he will have to find out how to take
it out from its sheath, how to hold it. It needs training. You don’t just give
a guitar to somebody who has never seen the instrument before and expect him to
be an Expert.
Now
this is your fault: these people who are in power, have you trained them? Has
anybody ever
thought
that the people who will be holding so much power need some certain qualities
so that they don’t misuse power? It is not their fault.
So
I propose two institutes in every university. One institute is for
deprogramming. Anybody who
gets
a graduation certificate will first have to get a clearance certificate from
the deprogramming institute – which means it has deprogrammed you as a
Christian, as a Hindu, as a Mohammedan, as a Jew... because this has been our
trouble.
And
four years is enough time. Deprogramming does not take that much time; just a
few hours a
month
for four years and you will be deprogrammed. And you will not get any
certificate from the educational institute unless you are cleared by the
deprogramming institute that ”this man is now simply a human being. He is no
longer a Christian, no longer a Hindu, no longer a Mohammedan, no longer a
Jew.”
The
second institute will be an institute for meditation, because just
deprogramming is not enough.
Deprogramming
takes rubbish from you, but you are left empty – and it is difficult to be
empty; you will start gathering rubbish again. You cannot manage by yourself to
learn how to live joyfully with your emptiness. That’s the whole art of
meditation.
So
on the one hand the deprogramming institute cleanses you, empties you, makes
you a vacuum;
and
the meditation institute goes on helping you to enjoy your nothingness, your
emptiness, your
inner
vacuum its cleanliness, its freshness. And as you start enjoying it you start
feeling that it is not
empty
at all, it is full of joy. It looked empty at first because you were accustomed
to having so much rubbish in it, and that rubbish has been removed so you say
it looks empty.
It
is just like a room full of furniture: you have always seen it full of furniture;
then one day you come and all the furniture is removed and you say, ”The room
looks empty.” The room is not empty, the room is simply clean. The room is
roomy for the first time. It was cluttered before, burdened, full of rubbish;
now it is pure space.
You
have to learn meditation to enjoy your emptiness.
And
that is one of the greatest days in life – when a person starts enjoying
emptiness, aloneness,
nothingness.
Then
nobody can reprogram you, nobody in the world.
The
university’s degree will come only when a clearance certificate from the
deprogramming institute and a graduation certificate from the meditation
university have been granted. It will depend on you– you can graduate in one
year, you can graduate in two years, you can graduate in three years, four years.
But four years is too much. Any imbecile, if he just sits for one hour every
day doing nothing for four years is bound to find what Buddha or Lao Tzu have
found, what I have found.
And
I want this to continue: if you are going to do your Ph.D. then you do three
years deprogramming and three years meditation. Those are compulsory to the
very end, so when you come out of the university you are not only an intelligent
person, well-informed, you are also a meditator – relaxed, silent, peaceful,
observant, watchful, intuitive. And you are no longer a Christian, no longer a
Hindu, no longer an American, no longer a Russian. All that bullshit has been
completely burned, nothing is left of it.
This
is the only way, to replace the politicians by the intelligentsia.
Tuesday, 27 January 2015
Never make love a politics, a power struggle.
A
gift of love out of freedom is beautiful. When you possess a person and the
person is forced to give her love, it is almost ugly, almost dead, full of
hatred. If you feel unhappy, tell her not to worry and that it has nothing to
do with her. Never make love a politics, a power struggle.
When
love gives freedom it becomes tremendously powerful repression. People don’t
understand and that’s why they have chosen repression. Freedom means that both
are free. But people have decided to repress it because they know that if the
woman moves, the man is allowed to; if the man moves, the woman is allowed to.
Rather than being free they have decided to be slaves. People have decided to
be slaves in order to make others slaves.
So
just think about it. Meet out of your freedom, stay together out of your
freedom, and when you are feeling good, be together. Both drop all repressions
and let’s see what happens, and that power is not ordinary power. It is very
very graceful and has a totally different quality to it – magnetic, but almost
divine.
Saturday, 24 January 2015
Your action is punishment and your action is your reward. You are the master of your destiny."
There are many legends about the Bodhidharma; they
all have some significance. The first legend is: When he reached China -- it
took him three years -- the Chinese emperor Wu came to receive him. His fame
had reached ahead of him. Emperor Wu had done great service to the philosophy
of Gautam Buddha. Thousands of scholars were translating Buddhist scriptures
from Pali into Chinese and the emperor was the patron of all that great work of
translation. He had made thousands of temples and monasteries, and he was
feeding thousands of monks. He had put his whole treasure at the service of
Gautam Buddha, and naturally the Buddhist monks who had reached before Bodhidharma
had been telling him that he was earning great virtue, that he will be born as
a god in heaven.
Naturally, his first question to Bodhidharma was,
"I have made so many monasteries, I am feeding thousands of scholars, I
have opened a whole university for the studies of Gautam Buddha, I have put my
whole empire and its treasures in the service of Gautam Buddha. What is going
to be my reward?"
He was a little embarrassed seeing Bodhidharma, not
thinking that the man would be like this. He looked very ferocious. He had very
big eyes, but he had a very soft heart -- just a lotus flower in his heart. But
his face was almost as dangerous as you can conceive. Just the sunglasses were
missing; otherwise he was a mafia guy!
With great fear, Emperor Wu asked the question, and
Bodhidharma said, "Nothing, no reward. On the contrary, be ready to fall
into the seventh hell."
The emperor said, "But I have not done
anything wrong -- why the seventh hell? I have been doing everything that the
Buddhist monks have been telling me."
Bodhidharma said, "Unless you start hearing
your own voice, nobody can help you, Buddhist or non-Buddhist. And you have not
yet heard your inner voice. If you had heard it, you would not have asked such
a stupid question.
"On the path of Gautam Buddha there is no
reward because the very desire for reward comes from a greedy mind. The whole
teaching of Gautam Buddha is desirelessness and if you are doing all these
so-called virtuous acts, making temples and monasteries and feeding thousands
of monks, with a desire in your mind, you are preparing your way towards hell.
If you are doing these things out of joy, to share your joy with the whole
empire, and there is not even a slight desire anywhere for any reward, the very
act is a reward unto itself. Otherwise you have missed the whole point."
Emperor Wu said, "My mind is so full of
thoughts. I have been trying to create some peace of mind, but I have failed
and because of these thoughts and their noise, I cannot hear what you are
calling the inner voice. I don't know anything about it."
Bodhidharma said, "Then, four o'clock in the
morning, come alone without any bodyguards to the temple in the mountains where
I am going to stay. And I will put your mind at peace, forever."
The emperor thought this man really outlandish,
outrageous. He had met many monks; they were so polite, but this one does not
even bother that he is an emperor of a great country. And to go to him in the
darkness of early morning at four o'clock, alone.... And this man seems to be
dangerous -- he always used to carry a big staff with him.
The emperor could not sleep the whole night,
"To go or not to go? Because that man can do anything. He seems to be
absolutely unreliable." And on the other hand, he felt deep down in his
heart the sincerity of the man, that he is not a hypocrite. He does not care a
bit that you are an emperor and he is just a beggar. He behaves as an emperor,
and in front of him you are just a beggar. And the way he has said, "I
will put your mind at peace forever."
"Strange, because I have been asking,"
the emperor thought, "of many many wise people who have come from India,
and they all gave me methods, techniques, which I have been practicing, but
nothing is happening -- and this strange fellow, who looks almost mad, or
drunk, and has a strange face with such big eyes that he creates fear.... But
he seems to be sincere too -- he is a wild phenomenon. And it is worth to risk.
What can he do -- at the most he can kill me." Finally, he could not
resist the temptation because the man had promised, "I will put your mind
at peace forever."
Emperor Wu reached the temple at four o'clock,
early in the morning in darkness, alone, and Bodhidharma was standing there
with his staff, just on the
steps,
and he said, "I knew you would be coming, although the whole night you
debated whether to go or not to go. What kind of an emperor are you -- so
cowardly, being afraid of a poor monk, a poor beggar who has nothing in the
world except this staff. And with this staff I am going to put your mind to
silence."
The emperor thought, "My God, who has ever
heard that with a staff you can put somebody's mind to silence! You can finish
him, hit him hard on the head -- then the whole man is silent, not the mind.
But now it is too late to go back."
And Bodhidharma said, "Sit down here in the
courtyard of the temple." There was not a single man around. "Close
your eyes, I am sitting in front of you with my staff. Your work is to catch
hold of the mind. Just close your eyes and go inside looking for it -- where it
is. The moment you catch hold of it, just tell me, `Here it is.' And my staff
will do the remaining thing."
It was the strangest experience any seeker of truth
or peace or silence could have ever had -- but now there was no other way.
Emperor Wu sat there with closed eyes, knowing perfectly well that Bodhidharma
seems to mean everything he says. He looked all around -- there was no mind.
That staff did its work. For the first time he was in such a situation. The
choice... if you find the mind, one never knows what this man is going to do
with his staff. And in that silent mountainous place, in the presence of
Bodhidharma, who has a charisma of his own.... There have been many enlightened
people, but Bodhidharma stands aloof, alone, like an Everest. His every act is
unique and original. His every gesture has his own signature; it is not
borrowed.
He tried hard to look for the mind, and for the
first time he could not find the mind. It is a small strategy. Mind exists only
because you never look for it; it exists only because you are never aware of
it. When you are looking for it you are aware of it, and awareness surely kills
it completely. Hours passed and the sun was rising in the silent mountains with
a cool breeze. Bodhidharma could see on the face of Emperor Wu such peace, such
silence, such stillness as if he was a statue. He shook him and asked him,
"It has been a long time. Have you found the mind?"
Emperor Wu said, "Without using your staff,
you have pacified my mind completely. I don't have any mind and I have heard
the inner voice about which you talked. Now I know whatever you said was right.
You have transformed me without doing anything. Now I know that each act has to
be a reward unto itself; otherwise, don't do it. Who is there to give you the
reward? This is a childish idea. Who is there to give you the punishment? Your
action is punishment and your action is your reward. You are the master of your
destiny."
Bodhidharma said, "You are a rare disciple. I
love you, I respect you, not as an emperor but as a man who has the courage
just in a single sitting to bring so much awareness, so much light, that all
darkness of the mind disappears."
Wu tried to persuade him to come to the palace. He
said, "That is not my place; you can see I am wild, I do things I myself
don't know beforehand. I live moment to moment spontaneously, I am very unpredictable. I
may create unnecessary trouble for you, your court, your people; I am not meant
for palaces, just let me live in my wildness."
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