Much
will be happening, much more, and gratitude prepares the way. Feel as grateful
to existence as possible – for small things, not only for great things... just
for sheer breathing. We don’t have any claim on existence, so whatsoever is
given is a gift. If it is not given we don’t have any court for appeal.
So
grow more and more in gratitude and thankfulness ; let it become your very
style. Be grateful to everybody.
If
one understands gratitude then one is grateful for things that have been done
positively. And one even feels grateful for things which could have been done
negatively. You feel grateful that somebody helped you; this is just the
beginning. Then you start feeling grateful that somebody has not harmed you –
he could have; it was so kind of him.
Once
you understand the feeling of gratitude and allow it to sink deeply within you,
you will start feeling grateful for everything. And the more grateful you are,
the less complaining, grumbling.
Once
complaining disappears, misery disappears. It exists with complaints. It is
hooked with
complaints
and with the complaining mind. Misery is impossible with gratefulness. So that
is one of the most important secrets to learn.
You
see a person and you smile. You smile for him. One should smile only for
oneself. If others share, good. If nobody shares, good. But one should smile of
one’s own accord. One should not laugh to make somebody else happy, because if
you are not happy, you cannot make anybody happy. Even if you are happy, it is
very difficult to make somebody else happy because it depends on that somebody
else as to whether he will accept it or not. One should simply laugh of one’s
own
accord,
and one should not wait for reasons to laugh. That too is absurd. Why wait for
reasons? Life as it is should be enough of a reason to laugh. It is so absurd,
it is so ridiculous. It is so beautiful...
it
is so wonderful. It is all sorts of things together. It is a great cosmic joke.
If
you start looking into things you will not be able to stop laughing. Everything
is simply perfect for laughter – nothing is lacking – but we won’t allow. We
are very miserly... miserly about laughter,
love,
life. Once you know that miserliness can be dropped, you move into a different
dimension.
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